On Shyness..

As a formerly EXTREMELY shy person, I can say that shyness is NOT a form of insecurity. In other avenues than in person, shy people can be extraordinarily confident.

It is entirely possible to be confident but be introverted.

It is also possible to be insecure but be extroverted.

No, shyness is thinking that EVERYONE IS LOOKING AT YOU. 

It is a form of junior high school following you. If you get up from your seat, people will look at you. You speak up, people look at you. And so on. This means you will less likely speak, less likely get up, and since every time you do you think you walk on a stage and everyone will notice you.

What shy people need to realize is that you could walk in front of a bus, get *thumped!*, and no one would really notice.

Shyness is also confused with hesitation. Hesitation is usually a result of unfulfilled desires. As Humans, we yield to less pain rather than more pain. Should I approach her? We yield to what we think is the least pain, not approach. 

Hesitation is solved when we realize that Inaction is more painful and that rejection is better than regret.

This is why, before you can start to date women, you must be able to DATE YOURSELF! That’s right, DATE YOURSELF. 

I saw this problem come up numerous times. It wasn’t that the guy was scared of rejection. He was scared of success!

“Pook! What do you mean? Why be scared of success?”

Because if she said yes, he didn’t know WHERE TO GO. What should they do? He had no idea.

This is why, before you can start to date women, you must be able to DATE YOURSELF! That’s right, DATE YOURSELF. Try going out to these places by yourself or with your friends first. This will:

-Make you more comfortable

You already know the place, are comfortable with it, and know what to expect. This is important since when you are with a girl and new to it all, it is enough for the shy guy to be out with the girl let alone in a new and strange place. This will make your job a lot easier.

-Makes you prepared.

You can speak of the places or so where you want to go with confidence and ease. You know the route and the best way to drive there. You KNOW what the costs will be, what the environment will be, so you know how much money to take and what to wear.

For the shy guys wishing they were girls, this is why you should be thankful you are the guy. You get to know BEFOREHAND where you want to go so you have all the time in the world to be prepared.

-Makes you have fun.

With you being comfortable and prepared, already your time will be more enjoyable. Since you have all those shy guy worries put away like what to wear, the cost, what the environment is, and so on, you get to focus ON HER and have fun with her.

Men’s Projection Is Their Greatest Weakness

Men and Women are different.

We say this, but then we go on. The biggest mistake men make is projecting themselves onto women. They think that because he feels romantic, that she does as well. So off go his thoughts into a sweet air of pageantry.

But what are the woman’s thoughts on the matter? They’re like a cold blooded accountant. Like I said, men and women are different. When a man goes off with his pageantry, his poetries, his odes of love, she waits for him to get done and then gets down to business. If a guy keeps on with this nonsense, she thinks he is a doofus and continues on.

Imagine if when you bought groceries, the buyer began talking romantically about the ‘green revolution,’ about how it is a modern marvel that we can enter a grocery store and find everything we need, of how glorious round the shape and size of the store’s melons, or the shapely way the pears are. The checker would be astonished if customers behaved in such a way.

Who knew the key to understanding women would be found in the thought process of accounting?

The values we as men hold are completely different than the values women hold. The apex of a woman’s life would be something like relaxing in a hot bubble bath in an island paradise. But men prefer truth, ideals, and victory.

Good and evil do not exist in a woman's lexicon. She is far more utilitarian since ‘good’ and ‘evil’ means a more celestial divine standard. Women who use sexuality as a means to an end are perceived evil by men. But to women, it is perceived entirely differently. 

Women view the greatest sin as men STEALING the goods. Rape, not murder, not terrorism, not genocide, is the greatest of wrongs to them. It is because rape is in fact stealing their goods. With murder and terrorism, well, that kills mostly men so that is not that bad. But rape is almost always against women. Also, with Victorian zeal, the greatest of crimes is also sex predators (who are, curiously, almost all men). They are always displayed on the nightly news. They often get hit with paying for their crime double by, first, jail time and then being told where they can live and all. I can think of worse crimes than sexual predation such as murder. The reason why they chose sexual predation against the entire Church was, in their eyes, the worst of all crimes.

So why do women love murderers? Go to any prison and you will see beautiful women come and go. Again, men and women are different. When a man commits violence, men consider it ‘evil.’ Women do not. In fact, women consider violence to be confidence. If women did not think this way, then why do murderers have such hot girls? The truth points to itself.

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